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The scenario being that your daughter is interested in two different men and needs a little advice in which one you feel she should date.
Man 1) He is doing ok but not really pushing himself and probably will be an avergae Joe all his life.
Man2) Personality traits etc are the same as above but this man is driven and has and will become more successful.
WHAT WOULD BE YOUR ADVICE?